Are you an introvert who’s cutting yourself off from the body?
The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!”
1 Corinthians 12:21
An introvert is part of the Body of Christ
I’ve been realizing more and more that just because I’m an introvert doesn’t mean I am allowed to cut myself off from the Body. I need to be involved with the Church community. It’ll take some planning and work, but it’s totally necessary.
Getting ready to talk to people
Last week I had the tremendous opportunity to get together with over a dozen multicultural worship leaders to write songs for the Church. It was an incredible time.
You had people from various ethnic backgrounds, talents, gifts, personalities, etc.
Bearing that in mind I had to prepare myself to be with my friends. I spent some time being alone and mentally preparing myself not to have too much time. I also woke up early in the morning each day, at about 5 a.m., to spend some time by myself because I knew I it would be the only time I would have to myself.
Working with too many people
During the first day we spent some time getting to know one another, which was important to do. But as we broke off into groups I soon realized I was in the wrong group.
I don’t mean there was anything wrong with the people. There were just too many people there.
People were throwing out song ideas really fast and I just couldn’t process it. By the time I finished internally processing they were off to another part of the song.
It was really hard for me.
A happy medium for an introvert
After lunch, on the first day, I went off to find a room by myself. I pulled out a song that I wrote two months before. It felt a little incomplete, so I wanted to refine it.
That’s when another sister in the Lord showed up, Holly G. She and I worked on the song for a couple of hours. Holly thinks in terms of themes, which helped me get a better feel for the song.
We also looked at Isaiah 6 and she helped me see some of the major themes within the scriptures.
Lesson…
You need to take some time to understand how you’re wired, how you can build relationships intentionally, and continue to be part of the Body of Christ. An introvert is not an island. An introvert is just as important as an extrovert in the Body of Christ.
Do you find yourself cutting people off from your life? What are some ways you can be an introvert and actively build relationships?
Share your story and your life…
Sincerely,
Peter Park
Blogger/Worship Leader/Speaker
peterpark@redemptionboulevard.com
(800) 453-3284
Blog post related to being an introvert:
From song leader to worship pastor
A change of heart to becoming a worship pastor
In the last year or so of doing multicultural worship I’ve been wondering if I should stop leading at my church. But, because I feel a sense of loyalty to our church I’ve stayed on. These are some things that how gone through my mind during times of my frustration:
I’ve been wondering why the diversity in our congregation hasn’t changed. I’ve been wondering if the diversity in our music was impacting our congregation. I’ve also been wondering if I anybody would really notice if I left.
Making the shift to worship pastor
One of the reasons for my frustration is that I’ve really just become a song leader. I’ve spent a lot of time introducing new songs in different languages and different styles but to what end?
We have a tremendous responsibility and opportunity to teach our congregation about worship every week. We must understand that the sermon isn’t the only time to teach and equip the people in our church. The whole service is designed for community, teaching, and sending people out again.
So, in our hearts, we must make the shift from song leader/worship leader to having the heart of a worship pastor.
What do you teach or talk about?
There are few things that the congregation need don’t hear enough about during the Sunday/Saturday service:
1. Why you picked the songs that you did
2. What did God teach you in preparation for Sunday
3. That they have permission to worship as the Lord leads (raising hands, dancing, bowing down, etc.)
Yes, some worship leaders talk too much, but you do need to share your heart and shepherd the people in the congregation as a worship pastor.
When do you teach as a worship pastor?
This depends on your senior pastor. Some worship leaders will take two minutes to talk at the beginning of the service, so it doesn’t take up any more time than usual.
If you’re feeling led to teach a bit longer, you may want to talk to your pastor having the opportunity to give the sermon on Sunday. This is something my friend, Peter Shu, has done. You have to realize that they hadn’t done this before at the church, but it made quite a difference in the heart attitudes of the congregation.
Are you frustrated at your church? Do you feel like you don’t have permission to do anything but sing songs on Sunday morning. What can you to begin making the shift to becoming a worship pastor?
Share your story and your life…
Sincerely,
Peter Park
Blogger/Worship Leader/Speaker
peterpark@redemptionboulevard.com
(800) 453-3284
Blog post that will help you make the shift to becoming a worship pastor:
What are you worshipping? – Proskuneo Ministries